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Sunday, March 30, 2025

Book Review & Analysis: Attachments by Judith Rossner


Attachments

by Judith Rossner

      What kind of a woman would marry a conjoined twin? Nadine, the main character of Judith Rossner’s Attachments would and she’ll one up your expectations too by convincing her best friend Dianne to marry the other conjoined twin. The refrain of “it’s complicated” when asked about a person’s love life is taken to a whole other level here. The author’s intentions are complicated too, so much so that it is not entirely clear what she strives to accomplish in writing this story.

Nadine is a naive young woman whose parents are connected to each other through the institution of marriage and yet they are emotionally distant and spend little time together. They live in a big house in California by standards that would be considered luxurious by today’s standards though the family is described as middle class in the context of this novel from the early 1980s. Nadine travels to New York to attend college and be near her friend Dianne. From her experiences there, especially regarding sex, she learns that men don’t really care about women’s feelings. It is a massive over-generalization and her conclusion is largely her own fault due to her promiscuity and the types of men she chooses to be with. Never mind the fact that she doesn’t care about men’s feelings either. This attitude carries over into her relationship with the conjoined twins and results in her being unable to cope with her marriage, but that all comes later.

When she learns about a pair of conjoined twins, Amos and Eddie, who live nearby, Nadine stalks them and seduces them. She is out for a unique sexual experience and that is what she gets. When Dianne comes out to visit her in California, Nadine proposes, without too much thought, that the four of them get married. Nadine takes Amos and Dianne takes Eddie. They all agree and end up living on a remote plot of land in New Hampshire.

By this point we learn that Nadine is the central character of the novel. She is also self-centered and barely aware of the other people in this unusual family arrangement. She becomes the mother hen of the house, especially after Dianne has a daughter with Eddie who they name Carly. Dianne leaves her with Nadine to raise her as a surrogate mother since Dianne gets employed at an enviable job in a law firm. Here we get a contrast between the two sides of the modern woman: the family woman who dedicates her life to raising children and the career woman who leaves her child behind to climb the ladder of her profession. The twins, on the other hand, have almost no personalities. They work as auto mechanics and handymen, but barely ever speak and do little more than go swimming. It is hard to tell what Rossner’s intentions are here. Are the twins really as bland as the novel makes them out to be? Or maybe Nadine is just so self-absorbed that she cannot see them for who they really are. Or maybe they are just underdeveloped as literary characters. In any case, if the author’s intentions were more clearly defined it would make it easier to situate the twins in the narrative.

Nadine also gets pregnant twice by Amos and then she has three kids to raise, mostly on her own. Her son, daughter, and surrogate daughter are also underdeveloped as characters. Throughout most of the early phase of the marriage, the story is all about how the four of them manage their lives as two couple bound together via the conjoined twins. The turning point comes when a film maker shows up in town with a band of hippy assistants and they take interest in the family of four parents and three children. A documentary film about them is proposed and as they are filmed telling their stories on camera, something changes. Nadine, for the first time in the novel, begins to think about her life and evaluate her situation. It is the first time she shows any sense of self-awareness since previously she acted solely on impulse and intuition. Her life up until then was all about seizing the moment and avoiding any calculations about future consequences. Again, it is hard to tell what the author’s intentions are here. Nadine could be deliberately portrayed as being shallow and egocentric or it could be that Rossner just failed to develop her character to completion. It might even be a little of both. But when Nadine becomes more self-conscious, she doesn’t change much as a person so her development as a literary character has to be taken as a weakness in Rossner’s writing.

The film project is never completed. A major movie studio hears about it and buys it out to make a big budget movie based on the lives of Amos and Eddie. In addition, the contract that the twins sign stipulates that they undergo surgery to separate them so that the movie’s end will depend on the outcome of the operation. The surgery is successful, the family becomes rich, and a few things change. Amos and Eddie remain just as psychologically close as they have been all their lives, but they also feel the predictable sense of liberation you would expect them to feel.

One way that the families become liberated is in the ways that they detach from each other. Nadine and Amos take their children to live in a house across the street while Dianne and Eddie stay put with Carly who is traumatized by the break up since she sees less and less of Nadine. Amos also rediscovers his passion for Nadine, but being the kind of selfish woman she is, she becomes less enamored with him as his love grows. She has always treated him as an object before, and now that he is more realized as an individual human being, she loses interest in him in part because he is no longer a novelty to her.

Then a family crisis brings out the better side of Nadine. Twelve year old Carly begins smoking pot and runs away from home to tag along with a bunch of drifters and drop outs. Nadine leads the family on a search and rescue mission to find Carly and she emerges as a more sympathetic character for a few days while she spends sleepless nights trying to locate where Dianne and Eddie’s daughter has gone. The crisis brings the two families together, but the newfound unity crumbles as soon as Carly returns. They are faced with the same old situation as Nadine continues to despise Amos while his love for her stays constant. Dianne and Nadine eventually reveal the truth of their lives to each other too as both of them admit to being miserable. Nadine wishes she were a career woman and Dianne wishes she were a housewife.

Once again, it is difficult to tell what Judith Rossner intends to say with this novel. It clearly is an examination of the individual and what responsibilities they take on in the institution of marriage and family. But in the novel’s scope, responsibility does not lead to happiness. Rossner appears to be saying that there is no way to win. We are hopelessly doomed to disappointment and misery no matter what path we choose. The reader is left with a sense of petty nihilism.

Stronger characters would have helped this book a lot. Amos and Eddie are so under-developed that you almost have to feel sorry for them. The same is true for the children. In the non-fiction world, neglect is considered child abuse; in Rossner’s fictional world, the children are so under-developed as characters that you almost want to call the fictional police to have them removed by the Child Protective Services, saving them them from Nadine’s nest. Carly is a good case in point. Her motivations for running away from home are never explored or explained and the incident ends up being more of an ego trip for Nadine to show how hard she tries to care for the children under her domain. And that comes after she decides not to intervene when she knows the twelve year old girl is doing drugs.

Nadine is the most developed character in the entire book, but in contrast to the others she is too developed for her own good. The others are more like props and less like people. But compared to other literary characters, Nadine is half formed. Putting a 2.5 dimensional character into a milieu of 1.5 dimensional characters makes the novel’s elements clash in a haphazard way. In a novel that is character driven, it doesn’t really work. Finally, it should be said that a story with conjoined twins at the center should have the twins more developed as characters too. A novel based around such an oddity should be more odd in its execution. The conjoined twins are obviously used as a metaphor and a vehicle for exploring human relationships, but as a metaphor it doesn’t hold up due to the fact that living people aren’t metaphors. This might have worked better if they had been written with more personality and depth, or at least as much personality as Nadine and Dianne. But people without character in a character driven novel just don’t hold it all together well.

Judith Rossner has great raw materials to work with here. A story about two women who marry a pair of conjoined twins is unique enough to capture anyone’s attention, but your attention might be easily deflated due to the disproportionate elements of the writing. Nadine is over-drawn in some ways and under-drawn in others, and the others characters are under-drawn in totality. Otherwise the book is an existentialist melodrama with a gimmick thrown into the middle of it. But this novel does have unrealized potential and I’d say that Rossner is a better writer than what she creates here. My speculation is that some jerks at her publishing house gave her bad advice on how to make the book more commercially palatable and took it for the sake of sending the book to print. Attachments has enough going for it to make it worth reading once. Just don’t expect too much from it.


 

Tuesday, July 30, 2024

Book Review & Literary Analysis: Looking for Mr. Goodbar


Looking for Mr. Goodbar

by Judith Rossner

      In the 1960s something happened in America that was called the Sexual Revolution. Alongside that, and sometimes overlapping with it, something else called Women’s Liberation gained momentum too. It was a time of social upheaval and times of such rapid social change bring risks because society runs wild into the wilderness without a map, without any plans, and without any guidelines to help ensure a safe transition into a new cultural mode of living. Some young people might struggle under a double burden as they try to find their place in a rapidly changing culture while also trying to find their place in the world, setting the stage for the role they will play for the rest of their lives. In Judith Rossner’s novel Looking for Mr. Goodbar, Theresa is a young woman, caught in the turbulence of this transitional time in American society.

The novel starts off with Gary Cooper White confessing to the murder of Theresa in a New York City police station. Cooper is a drifter from Florida, struggling with his own sexuality as he is in a relationship with another man, although he picks Theresa up in a bar for some fast and easy sex. The climax of the story opens the novel. What does this tell the reader? The murder is not the main point of the story. By putting it at the beginning we are quickly informed that the build up to this climax is what is most important.

So then we need to learn who Theresa is. As a child, she is alienated from her family. She has polio which leads to scoliosis and eventually a long stay in the hospital as surgery is needed to straighten her spine. She grows up feeling like an outsider with a permanent scar on her back and a slight limp which some men think makes her look sexy. In late adolescence, Theresa begins to connect with her older sister Katherine and begins to follow in her footsteps which is not necessarily in Theresa’s best interest. Katherine is promiscuous, uses drugs, gets into wife swapping, and has at least two abortions after getting pregnant without knowing who the father is. These passages in between the murder and Theresa’s first heart to heart talk with Katherine are the weakest parts of the book. Rossner writes like she can’t wait to get on into the juicier parts of the story and the result is some vague and muddled writing that suffers from lack of detail.

But things pick up when Theresa heads off to college. The naive young student gets targeted by a sleazy professor named Martin Engle who hires her to do his work for him, namely grading papers so he doesn’t have to. She walks directly into his trap, yet she does so willingly. The bed in his office is one among many clues of what is to come and mixed in with those clues are a lot of hints of how it will end up. Theresa wants to be seduced by Engle, but she doesn’t want to get dumped by him when she graduates and he moves on to another freshman who takes her place in his bed. All the subtleties of this affair are handled well since so much is obvious without the author explicitly saying so. You know that Engle is a skilled and experienced seducer of young college students. You know how the affair will end before it even starts. You know how it will effect Theresa even though she is smart enough to know what she has gotten herself into. But what works most effectively is how the process of seduction works. Engle searches out and finds Theresa’s primary vulnerability. He convinces her to explain why she limps and takes so much aspirin so she responds by showing him the scar on her back while telling him about her scoliosis. He offers her sympathy and emotional support in a way that come off as completely sincere. You can guess the rest.

After graduation, Theresa finds work as a grade school teacher, showing her compassionate and responsible side. At night, she prowls the singles bars of New York, picking up strangers for one night stands. This double life she leads functions as both a literary structure and as a psychological conflict for her as the book progresses. She eventually gets caught between two men. One is a grossly stereotypical working class Italian named Tony (as if there are no other possible names for Italian men in New York). He is crude, rough, insensitive, and a little bit dumb. Of course, he is amazing in bed so Theresa can not resist him even though she finds his personality to be revolting. The other man she sleeps with is James, an Irish Catholic lawyer who once considered joining the priesthood. James is intelligent and sensitive, but also a bit conservative. He isn’t too conservative though as he sees merit in some of the social changes happening around him. He even has extra-marital sex with Theresa although she finds it dull. She respects him for his mind and enjoys his company, but when he proposes marriage to her, she can not accept. Tony is the body, James is the mind. This dichotomy is cliché enough to make you role your eyes, but at least that unimaginative formula is filled in well with quality content. Both Tony and James are nuanced characters and through them we learn about all the fears and insecurities that Theresa has as she frets about what to do about the two of them. These psychological depths of Theresa are handled well with delicacy and sympathy by the author who brings us into the most intimate parts of Theresa’s mind, showing us how and why she is so unhappy and confused. When Theresa is on the verge of a nervous breakdown, she starts looking for ways to improve her life. And then...we already know where it goes. The process of developing Theresa as a character and portraying her self-consciousness and inner conflicts is the most subtly written part of the novel and also the strongest part of Rossner’s prose. With a non-judgmental approach, Rossner draws her as both fragile and strong simultaneously in a way that makes up for some of the more pedestrian aspects of the story.

Some people might be tempted to say this is a morality tale or a work of propaganda showing us what happens to women who engage in non-traditional lifestyles. This reading couldn’t be farther from the truth. It is more of a zeitgeist novel, examining the immediate effects of the social upheavals of the 1960s. For one thing, it shows how traditional family life is not necessarily compatible with the changing times of America. Theresa’s family does not give her the sense of self-esteem she needs to navigate the adult world and so she indulges in the risky behavior of using men for random sexual thrills. Her traditional family does not prepare her for the responsibilities that are necessary for relationships. James, her suitor, is also aware of the shortcomings of the old ways of living. Rossner indicates why the social movements of her time are appealing. By doing so, she raises questions about women’s roles in the family, women’s choices about when or if to get married, and whether women should be allowed to choose when, or even if, to have children. At the center of all this is the question of women’s sexuality and what it means on an individual level. Women need to be allowed to enjoy sexuality as they see fit, but they also need to consider the consequences and responsibilities that go along with it. Also of importance is the support women can give to each other. Theresa’s friend, another teacher at her school, invites her to a women’s discussion group where she learns that other women are struggling with the same problems she is. From them she learns that other women struggle with the issue of accepting their bodies, a central theme in this novel because of the scar on Theresa’s back and the way men notice her limp. This struggle to feel comfortable with her body is one of the roots of her feelings of anomie. Rossner is not writing to morally condemn Theresa; she is writing to provide a snapshot of her time in order to say that there are good and bad aspects of the social changes taking place. She is saying “Let’s stop for a minute, evaluate the situation, and decide what the best road to follow is from here on.” She isn’t necessarily saying that free love or extra-marital sex is wrong, but she is saying that we need to proceed with caution because this is new territory that contains significant risks.

The meaning of Looking for Mr. Goodbar is unique. It forges a middle path between hipster chic and stodgy, narrow-minded conservatism. Its evaluation of the Sexual Revolution and Women’s Liberation leaves the question of where to go from here unanswered, but also indicates the possibilities of good or bad paths to be followed. It was obviously intended for a commercial audience although it is more articulate and far better than 99 percent of the junk found on the best seller lists of the past 100 years. As American society continues to pass through sweeping social changes, you might be tempted to think the issues raised in this novel are outdated and specific only to that time, but the theme of an individual finding their place in a changing world, running into the wilderness without a map, is one that is timeless. The details may be outdated, but the dilemma is as old as the human race. It may make you wonder if the confusion we are suffering through as a society isn’t so unique after all.


 

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